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The gooner’s attention is brought farther away from fear and “deeper” into feeling “dumb”, into experiencing and riding their body sensations without control. We stop feeling safe when we feel at danger of being judged or rejected. Validation and compliment giving is part of bator culture. It can frame sexuality in the realm of images and away from the body’s lived experience.
Our attention will go to whatever is calling for it. However, the bator community has created ways to do just that. If you do this at home, usually you are safe enough that your ego doesn’t get in the way.
The alone way has its dangers. I hope to explore some of the specifics in the next issue. This also plays into performance anxiety. It’s not about being the fittest, it’s about appreciating how hot it is to see someone feeling sexy and confident.
Until then!
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Rajakz
No seriously how long has it been since one of us posted a video? When we start the interaction saying we’re gonna get “fucking dumb on dong” these fears melt away.
The porn way.
I like to think about the mind as a big dark room. This is dangerous. The fear of being ridiculous, of making a social faux-pas is ever present in our everyday interactions. The way of validation.
We can see it in the way we talk to each other.
Bators call each other “brothers”.
On Gooning
How do you slip into a gooning trance? You don’t need to control or consider the way you’re presenting, you can focus on feeling.
Then there’s the validation. Gooner porn is designed to grab your attention by sensory overhelming, visual and auditory.
Thanking people for “fueling your bate” is commonplace. When someone’s gooning, usually other bators say things like “such a dumb gooner” or “what a monkey” as celebration.